We are complicated. We always try to fit into someone else’s jigsaw puzzle, but we fail to understand that when we try to fit the piece of our puzzle into others, we are creating a huge void in our life. We are giving up our piece of life, thereby our peace of mind.
It’s not easy to gather every piece of our puzzle and make sense out of it. I know it’s easy to just fit your life into somebody’s created puzzle. By the pieces of a puzzle, I mean, the defined rules and direction one follows in life. How can you be living with what others are guiding and leading you? It’s the convenient path to take but not the fulfilling one.
When I look outside my balcony even the roads make sense to me. The blocks fit in, to lead us to a defined path. Just as we are in complete coherence with other person’s life, we think their life is without any flaws, and following their life guideline is the utmost path to follow.
Each block has properly fit into the block adjacent to it, and they would separate in the event of a catastrophe as and when the universe decides on it. Just as when we try to ape someone’s life, the Universe would never appreciate going against its principle of creating everyone unique. This would result in no less than a catastrophe.
We are always comparing, competing, and degrading, and still struggle to fit into the jigsaw puzzle designed by someone else.
Life goes through random twists and turns, but that doesn’t mean you let someone else decide your life. The concave curve of one piece of puzzle balances the convex curve of the other piece, so if you made a bad decision today, with time passing you would learn to decide better and fit your pieces in a complete puzzle.
Don’t Seesaw in others Jigsaw, Figure your own.